Camera Shy? I Got You.

You're not alone — and if anything, that’s so normal. Most of us aren’t used to being in front of a camera unless it’s for a blurry selfie or a group shot we immediately untag on social media. But that’s where I come in! My job is to make this experience fun, relaxed, and 100% you.

Here are some of my favorite tips to help you feel like your most confident self in front of the lens.

Tip 1: Everyone feels weird at first

Feeling nervous? Totally valid. For a lot of us, the word "photoshoot" brings flashbacks of stiff school portraits, itchy outfits, and forced smiles. However, this is real life, real moments, and I’m not here to make you pose like a mannequin; I’m here to capture you, exactly as you are. I always spend a little time chatting before we even start shooting, just to ease in and let things flow naturally.

Tip 2: Just be you (seriously)

You don’t need to “perform” or be anything you’re not. Laugh if you feel like it. Take a deep breath. Talk, move, be silly… Whatever comes naturally! Most of the time, my favourite shots are the ones where you forget I’m even there. And don’t worry, I’ll guide you with prompts that feel more like conversation than posing. Think of it like hanging out, with a camera quietly tagging along.

Tip 3: Move! Don’t pose

Stillness can make things feel stiff and awkward fast. That’s why I’ll always encourage a little movement—walk, laugh, hug, twirl, tuck your hair, grab your partner’s hand. Small movements lead to those natural, effortless moments that feel like you weren’t even trying. Because that’s the point, you don’t have to.

Tip 4: PDA? Totally your call

If you’re doing a couples session, know this: not everyone loves being super touchy in front of the camera and that’s okay. If PDA isn’t your thing, just let me know. We’ll focus on connection in a way that feels natural to you, whether that’s holding hands, dancing a little, or simply sharing a look that says it all. No pressure, ever.

Tip 5: Confidence? You don’t have to be born with it

I wasn’t always confident either. But over time, I realized that showing up as your true self, even when you’re unsure, is what really shines. If you have to fake a little confidence at first, that’s totally okay. It usually turns into the real thing pretty quickly once you realize—“hey, this is actually kinda fun.”

Tip 6: Make it an experience

Plan something fun after your session. Dinner, a beach walk, movie night, or anything that makes the day feel special. That way, when you look back at your photos, they’re tied to a memory that goes beyond just standing in front of a camera. It becomes a full experience, not just a shoot.

What to Wear for Your Photoshoot

Let’s talk outfits! This might be the most asked question of all time for photographers, obviously for good reason. You want to feel confident, comfortable, and still look great in your photos. Great news. You don’t have to overthink it. Here’s a quick guide to help you pick something that feels like you and photographs beautifully.

Tip 1: Comfort is key

The number one rule? Wear something you feel good in. If you’re constantly adjusting your clothes, tugging at straps, or pulling at sleeves, it’ll show. You want to be able to move, laugh, sit, spin and not worry about how your outfit feels or fits. If it’s comfy and makes you feel confident, it’s a win.

Tip 2: Keep it simple and neutral

Soft tones and earth-inspired colors always look amazing in photos. Think beige, cream, white, olive, dusty rose, light denim, rust, or sage. These colors don’t fight for attention and help keep the focus on you, not your outfit.
Avoid neon colors, big logos, or super busy patterns as they tend to clash and distract from the emotion in the photo.

Tip 3: Add texture or layers

Clothing with texture (like knits, linen, denim, or flowy fabrics) adds depth and visual interest without being loud. Layering (like a jacket, scarf, cardigan, or hat) can also make your look feel more styled and gives you options to mix it up mid-session.

Tip 4: Coordinate, don’t match

If you’re doing photos with a partner, friend, or family, try to coordinate your outfits instead of matching exactly. Think of it like creating a colour palette—stick to similar tones, but let everyone show off their personality.

Tip 5: Consider the setting

Think about where we’ll be shooting. Are we heading to the beach, the forest, your cozy home, or downtown? Choose outfits that feel natural in that setting. A flowy dress works great in a field, while casual layers might be better for a city vibe or indoor shoot.

Tip 6: Bring options!

Not 100% sure what to go with? Bring a second outfit! I’m happy to help you choose what works best based on the location and light. A quick outfit change can add variety to your gallery.

Final Thoughts

Wear what feels like you, keep it simple, and don’t stress it too much. The best photos happen when you feel comfortable and confident, not when you’re trying to dress like someone else.